Our time at the National Parks was great, but it was cut short by our need to get to central Utah to the small mountain town of Heber. Gathered in Heber were most of my extended McArthur relatives, including my parents who had bypassed us while we played in the parks. Everyone was getting together for my Grandma McArthur's 80th birthday party, and we were so happy to be in the near vicinity so that we could participate in the celebration. Most of the family had been golfing and shopping and spotlighting deer before we arrived, but luckily we made it for the little garden party and the official birthday dinner at one of Heber's local steakhouses. It was wonderful to celebrate Grandma's 80 years of life and accomplishments!
Despite the joy of celebrating, it's still a bit hard to realize that your Grandparents are growing older. I am ever grateful; however, that they are doing as well as they are. I'm grateful that most of my kids have had the chance to meet some of their great, great grandparents before they died. I wish that they also could have known some of Nick's grandparents, or my Grandpa McArthur. Nick's last grandmother died a few months before we started dating, and his other grandparents passed away at varying intervals many years earlier. I lost my Dad's father when I was a teenager. It's sad to think of the memories that could have been, but I am grateful for those we have. I love my grandparents--my Grandma McArthur and both of my mother's parents-- and I work hard not to take them for granted. These individuals comprise not only my living grandparents, but also my children's great-grandparents. They are a tremendous link to the past, and I can only hope they all hang on for at least a few more years.
And speaking of living for a few more years, the morning after we celebrated my Grandma McArthur's birthday happened to be July 1st--my own little Spencer's sixth birthday. At first I was a bit stressed that we would be traveling on his birthday yet again this year; but, when I realized that we only had a few hours of driving to do, and that he would be getting a birthday party in between each of our stops, I surmised that he might be all right after all. And all right he was.
We started the day with a little breakfast party in Heber with Spencer's McArthur Grandparents and Great-Grandmother. We had a fancy breakfast on the patio, complete with candles in his pancakes,(sorry--breakfast in bed will have to be a few days late)
and then Spencer got to open his first birthday present.
And what else would a group of McArthur's give a McArthur grandson? Well a Red Ryder BB-gun of his very own of course. That boy has the most McArthur blood in him of them all--and he sure makes his Grandpa McArthur proud!
As our time in Heber drew to a close, we said good-bye to Great-Grandma and Grandpa McArthur, and Grandma McArthur and our family drove a few hours to Grandma and Grandpa Carter's home in Tremonton, Utah. While there we visited with them, as well as with my Aunt JoAnne and her family. We also had another little birthday party there, but this time over lunch. Grandma Carter fixed a delicious home-cooked meal, and then, as a surprise for Spencer, JoAnne and her kids decked out a cake for the occasion. The chocolate cake was made into a mini construction site--quite clever actually--and Spencer was delighted at having a few more toys and a lot more attention.

The day couldn't end there though. We had one more bout of driving, and one more birthday party still to go, this time on the Hoskins' side of the family. So, after saying good-bye to our Carter Grandparents, as well as Grandma McArthur and her sister, we drove ourselves to Grandma and Grandpa Hoskins' cabin in Ogden Canyon. (Wow, how rare is it for one of my kids to get to spend his birthday with every living grandparents he's got!) By the time we arrived, everything there was decked out in Transformer décor and we were just in time for our third party of the day, this one over dinner. Before eating; however, Aunt Brenda entertained the kids for over an hour with all sorts of Transformer games.
Then we ate, had yet another birthday cake,
and then opened more presents.
Spencer got all sorts of Transformer gear from his cousins, a Harry Potter Lego book, and some new weaponry for his arsenal from his parents. He also scored a sparking scooter from his Hoskins grandparents.
All in all, it was a super day, full of family, cake, presents, parties, and fun! Happy Birthday little man! One more year down! A lifetime to go!